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PostSubject: Tips & strategies   Sat Jan 17, 2009 10:07 am

Discovered today that when Josha gets wound up and can't loistgen it works well to get him to stand still & count to 3 slowly. Then he is ready to listen.
Anyone got any other things that work?
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Sat Jan 17, 2009 12:57 pm

to talk to him on your level , and not to raise your voice
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Mon Jan 19, 2009 1:55 am

Failed miserably on that one this morning - 25 minutes to get out the door to school with me screaming all the way!!! Mad
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Mon Jan 19, 2009 2:09 am

oh babe , xxx never mind ,
even i fail on that 1 some times ,
when they start to freak out , be nice to them , and try , to get them interested in somethink esle , to get mind of wots upset them ,
works most of the time xxxx
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Mon Jan 19, 2009 8:57 am

good luck hunnie is hard i started think something not right with my baby wont sit still throws herself around im so worried shes gonna hurt herself is more than just the old toddler stuff ive been mum for 16 years never seen out like it in my life
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Mon Jan 19, 2009 8:59 am

raya laurahs little girl , throws her self around , bangs her head ect , and oh god the temper
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:29 am

Joshua won't or can't (not sure which) listen and is constantly losing things or doing exactly the opposite of what he's been asked to do! On on Monday morning it drives me mad cherry
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Mon Jan 19, 2009 2:21 pm

oh ,
right i think , u may have to just count to 10 for a while , then try again , with him ,

some times with jack , i say to him , for you aren,t going to listen to me , then i,m not going to listen to you , then , i walk away , and go and do somethink esle ,
within 5 mintes later , he comes to me , and say sorry ,
and can i help him , now
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Tue Jan 20, 2009 1:57 am

Good morning.
I will try the not listening & walking away

GOOD NEWS!!!!
Inspite of a horrendous morning yesterday Joshua had such a good day yesterday at school his teacher wrote in his homework book to tell me!!! We had a great evening until tummya ache struck and then no sleep.

Have got some results from hospital and it looks like allergies have got worse - not sure how we are going to deal with them yet - milk, wheat, soya, nuts, eggs & fish - UGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

Have a good day all

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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:09 am

morning ,
allergies been there done all that with laurah , when she was small , mmmmmmmmmm
well done joshua , a brilliant day at school ,

just take 1 step at a time , rome wasn,t built in a day xxxxxxx
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:13 am

opps to tummu ache , and no sleep ,
hopefully another good day for u at school , with him , xxxxxxxx
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Tue Jan 20, 2009 3:24 am

kid agggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh why they not listen i know they can hear me im counting it aint helping lol! big hugs to you both xx
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Wed Jan 21, 2009 4:18 am

After another good day at school & good evening we had no sleep again last night!!!
And this morning he flatly refused to take his meds - school even phoned me to get him to take them there. Now he says they make him feel sick.
Thank god I have a CAMHS appointment today!!!! geek
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Wed Jan 21, 2009 4:26 am

be calm and be strong , and be postive , xxxxxxxxx
good luck for appointment later ,
just tell them at chams how it is , with joshua at home ,
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Wed Jan 21, 2009 8:45 am

We are taking the brave step of taking Joshua off meds - without telling school! Fingers crossed.
Also going to a chart for getting ready for school to help him remember everything and best tip is when he is rude to me tell him how sad he makes me feel
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Wed Jan 21, 2009 10:11 am

jeep us posted xxxxxxxxxx
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:49 pm

get your doctor to try a different suplier of his medication although it may have the same name the make up of it is diferent this could cause an alergic reaction if he has been on the medication for any time his system could have built up resistance to the medication but most of all show him all the love in the world dont let him see he has upset you I know it is hard but if he sees the love you give him it will be returned believe me dont get stressed feel free to mail me back anytime I am a friend of anths and travel a lot so if you dont get reply stright away dont distress I may be at the other sideof the world best wishes
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Thu Jan 22, 2009 2:40 am

Thanks for the support.
We have tried several different versions already and always end up at the same point so before we try anything else we are going to have 6 weeks drug free.
Today is the 1st day - he got happy but was grumpy as hell on the walking bus but that's nothing new - he will probably have a great day at school
We're not telling school that he's not taking meds as they don't want to teach him without it - be interesting to see if they notice!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Thu Jan 22, 2009 2:56 am

mmmmmmmm
they should start to notice by monday ,

good luck xxxxxxxxxxxxx Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Fri Jan 23, 2009 1:47 am

So 2nd day of no meds and he slept for 11 hours last night - yippee!
But walking bus are already asking if he's had his meds and he wasn't very good for them yesterday.
Wonder what his teacher will say when I pick him up today?!?!?!!
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:33 am

good on the sleep front xxxxxxxxxx
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Fri Jan 23, 2009 7:01 am

Well we lasted a day and a half before the teacher has rung me!!
Apparently Joshua is off the wall!!!!
Thank god for CAMHS support
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PostSubject: Re: Tips & strategies   Fri Jan 23, 2009 11:45 am

school need to learn new technics then for dealoing with him
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